He broke up with you, but you still love him. That statement can tell you why you have not gotten your ex back. You might have become so obsessed with getting him back that you are thinking of nothing but him. You constantly talk about him to the point that your friends are beginning to avoid you. But he still will not talk to you. If this sounds like your situation, here is what you must do now. Use these expert but simple tips to make him want you back.
The first thing you should do is put yourself in his place. What if it had been you that broke up with him? You would want some time and space to think. But he keeps calling, emailing and sending text messages, saying he cannot live without you. Would you find that endearing and want to rush right back into his arms? You would probably consider him weak and desperate and try to stay as far away from him as possible.
That is why he is avoiding you. He broke up with you because he wanted some time alone. He might eve have said he needed space or a break. Whatever he said, he wanted you to respect his privacy. By staying close to him, you are thinking of your own interest and not his. You are afraid to leave him alone too long because he might find someone else.
No matter how much you want him back, he will not want to come back until he misses you. The only way he can miss you is if you are not around. Again, think if you had broken up with him and he completely ignored you and did nothing to get you back. Would you soon wonder if he still cared for you? That is what will make your ex want you back. Show him you don't care and go on with your life
To take it a step further, go out with your friends and have a good time. Your ex boyfriend has been wondering why you stopped trying to get him back. Hearing of you being out on the town will make him wonder if you are looking for another guy. To add to his woes, you should disappear for a while. Go on a mini vacation or visit relatives. Just drop off his radar for awhile.
When he looks around, he will notice you are no where to be found. That will make him think you have run off with another guy. The boyfriend that broke up with you will feel the huge void in his life that being without you has caused. That will make him miss you and want you back. When your boyfriend breaks up with you, put yourself in his place and use these expert but simple steps to make him want you back. It will work every time.
